Unabridged Chick

I'm Audra, a 30-something married lesbian. I love interesting heroines, gorgeous prose, place as character, and the occasional werewolf.
The Time Traveler's Wife - Audrey Niffenegger I find I judge folks who tell me this book is a favorite; worse, romantic. Too much about this book squicked me out: there was nothing romantic about a guy raising his wife (it doesn't matter if they married in the future, in his present, knowing his wife as a child is gross); Clare's relentless series of miscarriages (lady, just frickin' adopt); the weird incest-y threesome ...